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'Ms P' blasts VI men for ‘allowing’ their women to 'expose' themselves in public

- said the VI should have certain standards @ festivals
Former legislator Eileen L. Parsons, OBE has called on the men of the Virgin Islands (VI) to take a step and stop allowing their women and females to go on the streets dressing provocatively as it relates to the VI festival season. Photo: VINO/File
Eileen L. Parsons in photos with the local heritage dancers. Photo: Facebook
Eileen L. Parsons in photos with the local heritage dancers. Photo: Facebook
PALESTINA ESTATE, Tortola, VI - Former legislator Eileene L. Parsons, OBE has called on the men of the Virgin Islands (VI) to stop allowing their women and females to go on the streets dressing provocatively during festivals.

Ms Parsons was at the time a guest on the July 30, 2023, edition of Real Talk with Karia J. Christopher when she commented that she does not understand how men allow their women to dress a certain way.

The comments prompted Real Talk host Mrs Christoper to question whether, in 2023, men were still allowing women to do certain things. 

“I know the kids are mature and it's a different world, but still we are West Indian women and I cannot see how, if you and your boyfriend live together, how could your boyfriend allow you to leave home to go on the Road Town Street with so much of you exposed?" Ms Parsons said. 

“How can your husband allow people to see what only he should see? How could your father allow you, his daughter, to go out there exposed?” she further questioned. 

VI should have standards - Ms Parsons 

Ms Parsons' comments came on the heels of her stating on the same show that the VI Festival has become nothing more than feathers and flesh.

She added that some youths may say that Ms Parsons wants them to come up and dress like the local heritage dancers; however, she clarified that is not the case.

“This is the BVI, we are West Indians, we are British Virgin Islanders, we should have a standard that we live to and I know if my grandmother...was alive, my grandmother would have put her hands over little children’s eyes to stop them from seeing this nudity,” she said.

The local cultural icon said parents should still have control over their children who are living with them.

Ms Parsons added that it was that way in her generation, and while youths are far more mature now, there should still be standards.

94 Responses to “'Ms P' blasts VI men for ‘allowing’ their women to 'expose' themselves in public”

  • NezRez (14/08/2023, 10:51) Like (108) Dislike (6) Reply
    Ms. Parsons is 100% correct, and that is the opinion of most of us. We feel so helpless to not be included in the choosing of respectable outfits for our emancipation parade. Our ancestors died for us, and this is the thanks we give them? Turn this around in the future, so it will never happen again and our people can get our pride back. Allowing garbage in any form to ruin us will be our fault if we don't stop it now. If any troups show up in vulgar clothing, they should be expelled immediately by the police. Our children deserve so much better than this, so they can continue the tradition the way it was back in the day, the way it is supposed to be. RESPECT RESPECT RESPECT!
    • Rubber Duck (15/08/2023, 02:53) Like (20) Dislike (5) Reply
      It is not men’s fault that the women of the BVI disgrace themselves at the emancipation festival. The blame rests entirely with those foul classless women.
  • Citizen (14/08/2023, 10:51) Like (97) Dislike (7) Reply
    Like her or not, she is 100% correct. I sure when them ladies see the videos of themselves. They themselves are ashamed of how they look. Big fat sloppy, have pride in yourself ma. You all did not represent, wheel and come again.
  • one eye (14/08/2023, 11:05) Like (19) Dislike (107) Reply
    She need to go sit down
    • Irony (14/08/2023, 14:22) Like (24) Dislike (4) Reply
      She already is
      • @IRONY (14/08/2023, 16:25) Like (6) Dislike (2) Reply
      • Hi noon (14/08/2023, 20:58) Like (12) Dislike (0) Reply
        What is a wife these day? What is a husband these days? What is relationship these days? What is respectability, responsibility, ethics, morals, character and class these days?
    • @one eye (14/08/2023, 18:48) Like (15) Dislike (5) Reply
      Why she need to go sit down she is sitting with dignity and pride. You need to go take some self introspection and pray that your children and grandchildren don't inherit your bad ways. The festival was a disgrace to the people and the entire territory period. You seems to know nothing about out parents and grandparents our forefathers the sweat blood and tears to bring us to where we are today. Remembering is important in this aspect it strengthens us. Remind yourself of how far we have come. Ungrateful in our daily lives is a shame all we see today is me myself and I that is what we have come to.

    • Josiahsbay (14/08/2023, 18:56) Like (10) Dislike (0) Reply
      The respect you receive from others is directly proportional to your own self-respect.
    • icon (15/08/2023, 06:51) Like (6) Dislike (15) Reply
      She is tagged as a cultural icon so she would probably understand “ go siddung.” Did her husband( ?) own her , pick her clothing, approve her wear before she left the house, etc? Is Ms. P an originalist and wants to keep things and women in the Stone Age? Does she see and think women are robots who are programmed by men?
    • Linda (15/08/2023, 16:46) Like (2) Dislike (2) Reply
      Karma will surely come your way BIG TIME! Do you really think you will stay healthy forever? Just wait and see.
  • Hmm (14/08/2023, 11:26) Like (11) Dislike (11) Reply
    maybe them man prefer when other man looking at their woman and what she have
    • Be ye careful (15/08/2023, 06:55) Like (13) Dislike (2) Reply
      Ms Parsons is right on the Ball.
      In her time running the Committee, there would have been so many rejected undesirables.. They wont have been entered into the Parade.
      But lets face reality , If the men dare to speak to the Women too hard ,the Police are at your home for Domestic Violence, much more so if you touch them you would spend your Emancipation in prison,. So isn't it best to leave them alone, andto use those Evidences to build your Devorse Case grounds and let her try to be Emancipated from Street Nudity, and get no Alimony, because she wont need Clothes.
  • Kingfish (14/08/2023, 11:34) Like (56) Dislike (4) Reply
    When I attended VI Secondary school, she was one of my teachers, she was tough them and she still is. Many of us agree with her statement but are afraid to stand with her. She is 1000% correct and the blame lies with the BVI Government which have allowed the despicable behavior to continue for too long. The government should cut back on its funding of the festivals until drastic changes are made as it relates to a dress code and personal behavior.
  • cap (14/08/2023, 11:37) Like (33) Dislike (66) Reply
    First off, it’s not a man’s job to tell women how to dress or act, they can choose for themselves. Second, times have changed and people are more free now to express themselves. If you don’t like it go look at something else.
    • agreed (14/08/2023, 12:25) Like (20) Dislike (24) Reply
      The notion that a man...any man should have control over how a woman dress herself in 2023 is just beyond the pale. This suggestion coming from a woman of an entirely different generation.

      This is a different time and newer generation. No man should be in a position to tell or demand how a woman dresses.

      Ms P appears to have nudity issues especially around Carnival. Its her routine criticism. May I suggest to her something that she has apparently not learned in her life: You cannot change adults. We are all responsible for ourselves including the way we dress. No criticism can change that. We can only change ourselves not others particularly adults with their own way of thinking.

      Different generation and times. It is what it is.
      • RedStorm (15/08/2023, 12:28) Like (1) Dislike (3) Reply
        @ Agreed,
        This is a different time, where some women display nudity like if it’s was breakfast on the table. Let me remind the audience, it is the same moral requirement for women. If we look on the law books many women do not need to take off their clothes to be arrested by definition of nudity.
    • cap (14/08/2023, 12:49) Like (10) Dislike (9) Reply
      Man or considered the head of the house hold.
      • @cap this is the real cap (14/08/2023, 16:45) Like (11) Dislike (22) Reply
        Considered by who? Anyone over 70 years old? I hate to break it to you, but women work, drive, go to school etc. Why do so many people in the BVI have such outdated and ignorant views?
        • Correction (14/08/2023, 23:44) Like (15) Dislike (1) Reply
          Somebody break in the house, you run go see what it is. Talking bout women work. Women have always worked. Is this supposed to be something new? Yall are so misled by modern foolishness.
        • hmm@cap (15/08/2023, 08:14) Like (0) Dislike (3) Reply
          well the logic is that man sometimes be topless so I guess since women can be head now they too can go topless lol
    • ok (14/08/2023, 13:42) Like (26) Dislike (1) Reply
      Too far east is west and choices have consequences. Not because you are free to do something means you should. Some of the adult females in the territory are so desperate for attention, they don’t care if it’s positive or negative. Well you have your negative attention now and you cry fowl? I have said it a thousand times and I will say it again. What ails our community is the damaged women who are singularly raising damaged children. The thousands of children that went to see Jada Kingdom validates my long standing observation. I am positive if females were to fix what is broken inside them they would actually upgrade and be deserving of the title women.
    • RedStorm (15/08/2023, 12:22) Like (4) Dislike (1) Reply
      Freedom have its price. It is the husband, boyfriend, uncle,ectera whoever it may be to see that their significant other dress appropriately. The standards set by the committee should be one that place moral values above nudity. Have you ever see those same women show up at their job with those attire? No! Because the justification is it’s not appropriate wear for the work place, and it will remain so for the road. Bring change now!

      No one should try to measure other people by a short ended yard sticks. I hope the festival committee is ready these comments that indicate a large number of people are not in favor of the lude acts of festivals.
      • @redstorm (16/08/2023, 01:43) Like (1) Dislike (2) Reply
        So is it the men who have to tell the women how to dress? Or does the government need to tell them? Either way what kind of sexist view is that? Do women need to tell men to stop walking around with their pants below their knees, with their ass hanging out?
  • Strupes (14/08/2023, 11:40) Like (15) Dislike (51) Reply
    THOU SHALL NOT JUDGE. ! who are you? GOD?
  • Donald (14/08/2023, 11:40) Like (65) Dislike (13) Reply
    It's clear that women who exposed their bodies the way they did have no sense of morals or self-respect. No decent woman would ever dress the way they did.
  • Strupesssss (14/08/2023, 11:41) Like (4) Dislike (41) Reply
    THOU SHALL NOT JUDGE. ! who are you? GOD?
  • tho way it is (14/08/2023, 12:01) Like (50) Dislike (7) Reply
    I concur with Ms. P 100%. Back in 1834 on the first Monday in August when the Emancipation Proclamation was read there was much jubilation, dancing and fetting. But guess what? The women were properly dressed. There were no semblance of nudity, gyrating and vulgarity in the streets like what is being demonstrated today. And yes, they were free and they celebrated their freedom but it was done in a modest and respectful way. This entire concept of bikini outfits on the parade route does NOT represent us, our country or our culture.
  • Disinterested (14/08/2023, 12:44) Like (15) Dislike (20) Reply
    Ms. P, enjoy your time, you had your time. Let this generation(s) enjoy their time. I’m sure that in your teenage time you didn’t meet all the expectations of elders at the time and you didn’t turn out to bad did you?

    Moreover, Men don’t own women; they are not men’s property. It seems you want to throw women’s suffrage movement, and rights back into the Stone Age. You want set back the feminist movement. Your in your face despisement, displeasure, discontent, discomfort, ie, does little to meet your desire of the way things should. This is a sanitized way to put it, for some of did learn something from elders, ie, respect elders. . . How the young people dress for festival is a temporary respite from the stress of life.
  • cnn (14/08/2023, 12:48) Like (3) Dislike (17) Reply
    the woman look good
  • No to Traditions (14/08/2023, 12:49) Like (21) Dislike (2) Reply
    “I know the kids are mature and it's a different world, but still we are West Indian women and I cannot see how, if you and your boyfriend live together, how could your boyfriend allow you to leave home to go on the Road Town Street with so much of you exposed?" Ms Parsons said.

    “How can your husband allow people to see what only he should see?

    Some women do not have respect for God, husband or significant other. God is supposed to be the head of every household and then the man (Ehpesians 5:22-33). But with so much covetousness, chaos, wickedness etc. the household and relationships are not Godly and are out of order and by extension society. We are supposed to be guided by God's commandments and covenants not man made traditions. Making the word of God none effect through the traditions you have handed down and many such things you do (Mark 7:13)

    The BVI needs to get back to God and spend its precious resources on education, and other industries which reap dividends and not havoc and vain babblings!
  • El Demonio Negro (14/08/2023, 13:14) Like (9) Dislike (2) Reply
    Mrs. Parsons where have you been the past ten years or so. With the woman empowerment gender movement a MAN CANNOT TELL HIS WIFE or GIRL TO PUT ON CLOTHES. That's grounds for break up divorce etc. Sick society we live in.
  • Future (14/08/2023, 13:19) Like (40) Dislike (5) Reply
    They are for the street. They would run to cover up if you show up to their home and they’re in their underwear but out on the public street parading as if it’s nothing. Make it make sense, women have some pride.
  • Patriarchy is dead (14/08/2023, 13:24) Like (5) Dislike (5) Reply
    Allowing their women?? Come on now. It is 2023 and women do not have to do as their men tell them. They have every right to dress as they feel. Not saying I particularly like the way some women dress but it is not up to me or any other man to tell them how to dress. The misogyny is coming from inside the house.
    • El Demonio Negro (15/08/2023, 08:29) Like (1) Dislike (1) Reply
      See Mrs. Parsons I told you! See one of them right here.
  • Hmm (14/08/2023, 13:25) Like (8) Dislike (14) Reply
    what kind of stone age thinking is this? who is 'ALLOWING" grown and hardworking people to do what they want in the year 2023 miss P needs to take a back seat on her old way of thinking men can't even tell HER what to do so i need to understand what rum she is drinking now?
  • I don't disagree (14/08/2023, 13:42) Like (13) Dislike (3) Reply
    Mrs. P, but times have changed. these women are for the streets and to the streets they shall return.
  • If only (14/08/2023, 13:44) Like (20) Dislike (2) Reply
    If only more of us will become as bold as Ms P
    and speak out about what is on our mind, here would be a much better place.
    The vulgarity that was openly displayed over the Emancipation Festival is just mind boggling. What were those young ’ladies’ and hard women trying to portray? They should all be ashamed of themselves.
    The men were dressed properly while the majority of the half naked women carried themselves like
    harlots. It is very embarrassing for our islands and I think that we need to stop wasting our money on this foolishness (to entertain who?) if the horses
    cannot be bridled.
    Shameful behaviour! No wonder decent
    people do not stick around and participate in the celebrations. Those brazen women were like they were in heat.
    Enough of this. Our festivals are totally out of control. Bring back our culture. Congrats to the organisers of the East End/Long Look Culture Village and the Carrot Bay Festival Celebrations.
    Stop the jouverts/rise and shine in Road Town and East End and keep the horny strippers out of the parades. Sickening. Too much vulgarity.
  • open wide (14/08/2023, 13:48) Like (5) Dislike (31) Reply
    She again she just mad Ronnie is not the premier and will never be!
  • El Demonio Negro (14/08/2023, 14:05) Like (8) Dislike (29) Reply
    And who the HECK wants to attend a parade in that weather to see local heritage dancers in those long frock. Who wants to endure Fungi music for 3 hours in that weather. NOBODY! If I'm going to be in that weather I NEED FLESH. TH tourists sure enjoyed themselves especially the men. FACE DOWN!
  • John Crow (14/08/2023, 14:17) Like (11) Dislike (1) Reply
    Wa culture! You took out the cultural wear for candy wrapper in the Prince and Princess show. What that telling you?
  • Dinosaur (14/08/2023, 14:19) Like (5) Dislike (8) Reply
    Modern women do what they want now. Men are irrelevant.
  • vex (14/08/2023, 14:25) Like (11) Dislike (2) Reply
    "You people"? Sit your silly bum down and shut your mouth.
    If you don't like the truth, go somewhere
  • look food (14/08/2023, 14:34) Like (14) Dislike (1) Reply
    I think the men actually enjoy that
  • Jane (14/08/2023, 14:35) Like (8) Dislike (13) Reply
    Shaking my head in disbelief: woman are not the chattel of their boyfriend / husband / father to be controlled or "allowed" to do something. This is not Saudi Arabia. This is not 1950's small town America.

    A woman has the right to dress however she damn well pleases as long as she does not break the law of this Territory. Folks may roll their eyes and cast the first stone of judgment, as is THEIR right. However, there is only one lawgiver and judge, he who is able to save and to destroy. But who are you to judge your neighbor Ms P?
  • Norris Turnbull (14/08/2023, 14:43) Like (12) Dislike (1) Reply
    Man and woman shacking up unmarried is immoral also talk that. Tortola will Eat you.
  • shocking (14/08/2023, 14:55) Like (16) Dislike (3) Reply
    Shocking disrespect to the ancestors and their memories. Is this the "freedom" for which they were shackled and manacled, beaten, bled, fought and died?
  • Wake up and live. (14/08/2023, 15:19) Like (12) Dislike (13) Reply
    Ms P, Gather all of your type to watch the world games that 100s of millions will be watch and look at what them females athletes be wearing, when them bend over you can almost see all flesh and feathers,. No one ever talk about that...So, go sit down, let the ladies be, them ain robbing, shooting, committing crimes or troubling anyone...Your energy and time are focus in the wrong direction...
  • Bree (14/08/2023, 15:24) Like (28) Dislike (2) Reply
    I agree 100%. I felt so shame on Monday to see the clothing and behaviour of my female counter parts. It was so disgraceful and tasteless. Two things that had me really pissed off were: 1) the plus size ladies in these skimpy clothes show all their cellulite, lumps and rolls carrying on as if they have no care in the world. You could almost see their heartbeat when the bend over with what they were wearing. 2) The dancing/routines were best suit for the nightlife not for parade which as this was touted as a family event. Noone should have to witness that kind of nonsense in any public place. In the future leave that for the club and your private life. I know we can do better than this. We are a very creative people and can come up with better costumes than what was displayed on Monday. Please leave the lingerie for where they are intended to be worn.

    Question. Did any of you notice the men were fully clothed while our women left nothing to the imagination?

  • BVIslander Born and Raised (14/08/2023, 15:40) Like (27) Dislike (3) Reply
    Ms. P., speak your truth. Many of us totally agree with you. I disagree though that these women have men. There is no way a woman with a man in the middle of the street, bright sunny day in a thong and then bending over and shaking her naked tail in the wind.? These must be women looking for a man. They are throwing bait. Not to mention the men who are properly covered jumps on to dry hump them. God made us higher than the animals but that looked to me like when dogs in heat.

    In the name of being adult and being able to do what you want, these young people have taken us down to dregs. But if you have no pride and respect for yourself, so be it. I for sure not going back to the parade. I know that is done at jouvert, but somehow it is okay to wear down to the parade where all are there to see, including their children? Well, I hope that the Government will send out costume guidelines for next year because this is outrageous.
  • next year (14/08/2023, 15:43) Like (14) Dislike (4) Reply
    • @next year (14/08/2023, 17:53) Like (6) Dislike (5) Reply
      Walk with ticket books
      Share tickets like crazy
      Let them pay their fines after
  • STRIPPERS IN OUR PARADE (14/08/2023, 15:51) Like (10) Dislike (1) Reply
  • WOW (14/08/2023, 15:59) Like (5) Dislike (15) Reply
    So we are back in the draconian era where women have no rights. Unbelievable!!!
  • Hmm (14/08/2023, 16:40) Like (13) Dislike (0) Reply
    She ga a point. BUt to each their own.
    Some ayuh ladies ga too much tataz and chingal to be wearing them dental floss costumes.
  • Loosemouth (14/08/2023, 16:54) Like (8) Dislike (1) Reply
    While I agree with Ms.Parsons the word "Allows" frightens me. It speaks of "control" one of the factors in domestic abuse. I believe women should make decisions on what they should wear but should do so with consideration for others.
  • vex (14/08/2023, 17:23) Like (6) Dislike (0) Reply
    Are you blaming Men? These days when you tell women to put on more clothing, the first thing they tell you is it's their bodies. And you old fashion and must get with the times. Ms P women today are liberated.
  • . (14/08/2023, 17:33) Like (14) Dislike (1) Reply
    There is no way, you catching me in the things I saw women wore for parade. My son would be so embarass.
    • @. (15/08/2023, 00:38) Like (5) Dislike (0) Reply
      Like myself I know there’s many decent women that still respect themselves
      By now most of them stale like stale bread
      Everybody done see their business
      They shouldn’t bother wear clothing for work etc
      Guess that’s why most of them ain’t married or getting married anytime soon
  • Me (14/08/2023, 17:51) Like (11) Dislike (1) Reply
    My husband don’t have to worry as I don’t bare basically naked at no time ....
    I respect my body and sees it as sacred
  • Undercover Observer (14/08/2023, 18:17) Like (4) Dislike (8) Reply
    Though some of us Boomers or Greatest Gen may dislike the way Gen Z, Millennials, etc, dress and carry on for a parade, what legal law(s) are infringing? It seems we want impose our moral code, becoming the morality police, on these young women who are not breaking laws. Do we want to travelled way back to the Stone Age?? Do we now want government to be telling people how to dress?? Do we now want to take away this civil liberty? Why no one saying anything about men walking around bare chested and showing off their package? Do we tell the elderly to leave the booze alone, especially those that do so excessively?? Do tell the elderly to stop dropping the F-Bombs, etc?

    Moreover, property and major crimes, eg, murders, etc, are a cancer in the community but we castigating these young women because they are not dressed like old maids. Further, we make the women chattel property of men? Is Emancipation a celebration from physical slavery for Blacks?? But now we want enslave women? What happen to feminism?? What happen to women suffrage?? What have to women suffrage?? What happen to women movement??

    We are blaming the young women for how they dress, breaking no jaws?? There is individual responsibility but we should be looking at parents, community, school system,,etc. Maintaining community standards don’t happen by accident, by osmosis, by decree, etc. it takes community engagement. Let us stop the holier than thou crap. Who can cast the first stone? If we peel back the onion will we be surprise what we will find? Let’s take a peek back in time at the BVI? Will we be surprise at what is unearthed relative to moral behavior? Nuff things use to happen after dark in Road Town and in the Villages. Don’t get me started, for I know and observed nuff things? I leave that for now.

    • Manjack (15/08/2023, 07:51) Like (3) Dislike (0) Reply
      @Undercover Observer, I like the following vibe, “ We are blaming the young women for how they dress, breaking no jaws?? There is individual responsibility but we should be looking at parents, community, school system,,etc. Maintaining community standards don’t happen by accident, by osmosis, by decree, etc. it takes community engagement.” Women did not wake up one August Monday morning and decide they are going to dress in a way that is easy on the eyes( yes that is sexist ) but are going to bomb out some Boomers, etc? Their dress was long in the making. The community must take responsibility. To UO, where was the parents, community, educational system? Yes, the young women ( the young woman are not the only women who are dressing in a tantalizing way) are responsible for the way they dress. Are a critical mass of men complaining? I doubt it. Perverts, perverts. Nevertheless, the community must take care and accept responsible. The change now is not going to change overnight; it will take time to get by in ; it will take perhaps a generation( s). For the change to be effective it must be gradual. Sometimes wanting change bad and quick brings it bad.
      • Provocative (15/08/2023, 14:58) Like (1) Dislike (0) Reply
        @Manjack, if women don’t want men to look at and admire them, they should dress like Quaker women, not dress provocatively. Women have this habit of dressing provocatively and when look at them, they go “wah yu looking at.” Ladies men are dogs and will look; they are beast.
  • dogman (14/08/2023, 18:32) Like (0) Dislike (8) Reply
    Allow? What kinda world she thinks we living in. Men can't stop women from wearing what they want lady. This ain't dinosaur days.
    • Citizen (14/08/2023, 23:25) Like (7) Dislike (1) Reply
      When she says allow she means accept. I would personally leave any woman I decide to be with if she refuses to act and dress accordingly. The most I would do with a girl dressing provocatively is smash. And onto the next one. Would never be called my girl. But yeah, you could do exactly what u want to do but you will end up
      Just a smash.
      • @citizen (15/08/2023, 10:07) Like (1) Dislike (4) Reply
        @Citizen, do you have a mother, daughter, aunt, niece, cousin? So the only thing a woman is good for to you is a sc…w, a f…k, a smash (smash is the same sc..w,, etc., because they dress a little provocatively? You like a h..e, who want just smash from A to Z +. Pity women cannot just cut you off to “ pumping.” Women need to go on strike and see what hoes and dogs, ie, pump?
        • @@Citizen (15/08/2023, 15:10) Like (0) Dislike (2) Reply
          @@Citizen, you taking this ting too far . Women dressing provocatively is one thing but women cutting off wife is another thing. Let the women dress how they want, for msn want wife. It is a life and healthy need. Prostitution is illegal, risky, and costly. Now you giving women ideas to take women’s lib further. There is enough of the same-sex thing. We want… wi…e.
          • @@@Cotizen (15/08/2023, 17:06) Like (1) Dislike (1) Reply
            @@@Citizen, you, go take a cold, cold shower and pump. Furthermore, go find an ants nest; you useful piece of sh ..t. Women are not your spe…m deposit bank. Lol.
        • Citizen (16/08/2023, 11:44) Like (3) Dislike (1) Reply
          My mother and aunts would never dress like what I am seeing these days on the road. I will guide my daughter the correct way until I have no say so, the rest is up to her and how she wants to be treated after I let her know what to expect from her actions.
  • kpt (14/08/2023, 19:53) Like (0) Dislike (2) Reply
    @one eye she is always sitting.
  • Listen! (14/08/2023, 20:25) Like (0) Dislike (7) Reply
    Y’all dress how y’all want.
  • FLIP FLOP (14/08/2023, 20:26) Like (1) Dislike (8) Reply
    All this talkin she doin should be for her granddaughter dat is datin da extradited record label owner. Clean up yuh own house first!
    • Well Well (16/08/2023, 14:47) Like (2) Dislike (0) Reply
      At least she is dressing decent and not like a loose cannon on the street. Seems like you're jealous. What does your comment have to do with what she said. This is why the BVI is going down the drain with ignorant comments as this.
  • guess wha? (14/08/2023, 20:29) Like (5) Dislike (2) Reply
  • Truth (14/08/2023, 20:53) Like (6) Dislike (1) Reply
    The Women dem look sooo f--- up but... BMW Body made Wrong. Blob fat, sweaty arms and thighs, black n rubbing and not ashame to show. Real Men not interested. They looking attention. But again they doing it for the nasty girls which Tola full ah. Men only look and have the same view as Miss P. Let's have some pride and a decent Man you will find you to make you a Wife.
  • It rough (14/08/2023, 21:00) Like (8) Dislike (0) Reply
    Don't blame the man .... some women have picked up a habit where they like expose their body cause the money man n popular man watching. They want attention. N will do anything for it . They got no respect for themselves , their parents or their children . Kids having kids non can tell none better . Jus how the mother leave the house their daughter would sometimes even posting pics " MY TWIN " is the caption . But they get upset when man approach um as how they dress . Ya can't expect to be treated with respect if you dress like a s**t
  • Blah, Blah, Blah. (14/08/2023, 21:36) Like (3) Dislike (0) Reply
    Perhaps if we start by getting our men to pull up their pants and not walk around advertising their behind we could make an impact and positive impression. How can these so called men tell a woman anything about dress. How can a thirty something year old grand mother tell her teenage daughter how to dress when she already has one or two children. The world has gone to hell its survival of the fittest... don't waste your breath.
  • @miss P (14/08/2023, 22:01) Like (1) Dislike (0) Reply
    The youths was taught to believe that they are entitled to have their own way whenever , wherever and however and with the exposure to drugs everywhere they have taken it to another level / that's why the emancipation festival should be preserved and displayed with respect and pride culturally cultural only / and Choose another day for the youths to do their thing , ( the law is there to make sure that there is no weapons or violence / if you plant lemons do you expect to reap apples / there is worse to come , when them crackheads start having children , that will be another story , like it or not / it's happening all around the world so don't act like we holy here / we copy everything we see or hear the the US do / and I ain't putting anybody down , neither am I a psychic / and ax I said before ( parents should have their kids do a blood test to make sure their kids are clean / it wouldn't harm them to know the truth / remember certain drugs can be slipped in your drinks / your food / your smoke etc , by a close friend ( fake friends ) / so always be aware of what's going on around you , for yourself
  • Truth!!! (14/08/2023, 22:36) Like (6) Dislike (0) Reply
    Thank you Ms. P
    I am a woman and I am ashamed of all the nakedness. I always say by the time some of them get married everybody already see all dem stuff.
    Big Cheeks! Jiggly cheeks! Bunny cheeks!
    Dimple cheeks- You see it all on show.
  • …. (14/08/2023, 23:22) Like (3) Dislike (4) Reply
    No matter what you say or how you try to put it or what angle you try, you can stop it. Bye! Times change people change. Y’all like to talk about young people this and young people that but guess what? News flash y’all raised us we are a representation of you. So great Job!
  • ausar (15/08/2023, 03:35) Like (4) Dislike (0) Reply
    While I agree that the women of today are modernized, in dress, education, mobility, and so forth, I think a bit more discretion should have been had in the the manner of dress,with regards to the "fupa" areas..

    ..Quite, quite shocking, to say the least..

    Perhaps, more feathers, bows, ribbons, should be looked into as additional coverings for those "areas", going forward..

    Yes, we are emancipated.But, we can be conservative,while with modesty, showing various cultural true respect for our freedom..
  • Ronald (15/08/2023, 07:34) Like (0) Dislike (0) Reply
    When management program everything only then a system can be enforce, our parents can be of great assistance to start with.
  • Really? (15/08/2023, 07:42) Like (9) Dislike (0) Reply
    Ms. P is not my favorite person, but I agree with her!! I feel sorry especially for the women who are making the comments about a woman’s freedom to do as she pleases without a man’s control, because you are so off track. If you are in a relationship, married or not, your partner is an extension of you. When he or she steps out of the home they represent the home and by extension, you. The same way our children represent us at school. Why is this concept hard for us to grasp??! She is simply asking men to hold their partners accountable for how they present themselves outside the home. How does this take a woman’s right away? A decent man would not want too much of his woman’s body exposed. He would want it reserved for his eyes only. What is so hard in that to understand???
  • HMMM (15/08/2023, 08:21) Like (0) Dislike (0) Reply
    I would like to see the man who could tell Ms. P what to do. This is not about men assuming dominion over women. That time has passed. I do believe, however, that our fore parents should be honored with more dignity than feathers, flesh and drunkenness. It’s more than disgraceful to see what’s this Emancipation Festival has become.
  • Whose fault? (15/08/2023, 08:39) Like (0) Dislike (0) Reply
    I see! So it’s the man’s fault that the women are dressing and behaving like that.
  • really 2 (15/08/2023, 08:51) Like (5) Dislike (0) Reply
    Some of these comments blow my mind. How can anyone disagree with what Ms. P said? She is not blaming men or stripping women of their rights. As a man in love with a woman, you should ALWAYS want to see your woman put her best foot forward every time. Which dude wants to see his woman, who is also in most cases the mother of his children on the street looking like a whore? I can’t think of one.
  • solution (15/08/2023, 15:55) Like (1) Dislike (0) Reply
    Since we can't differentiate our festivities then have our emancipation separated and stay as is with dates as normal in August. Then create a carnival day for the vulgarity and feathers simple as that. Note our emancipation festival is king everything else becomes secondary.
  • Wa he name (15/08/2023, 22:51) Like (1) Dislike (0) Reply
    Miss P, my girl going tell me I insecure then use da as fuel to break up with me then come back when festival done. Miss P address the ladies please
  • Allowing?? (17/08/2023, 04:33) Like (0) Dislike (1) Reply
    She's still stuck in the patriarchy. A woman does not need her husbands permission for anything. He can give an opinion but it's her choice.

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