UPDATE: Chadil Parson left suicide note on FB page
Parson, if in fact the posts on his Facebook wall were done by him earlier in the day, had sent clear indications of his hurt and intention to end his life. Based on the posts of his Facebook page he was at the brink of frustration which he either vented or was screaming for help.
At approximately 10am his Facebook post read, “Aye I f..king hate this sh.t innuh. Strupes. WHY IT CANT ALL JUST END? You know what I going make it end.”
A friend with the Facebook name keke wuv You, at that stage zeroed in on him when he/she asked him, “U ok? to a response, “Just (F word) fine.” Later another person with the Facebook name Lisa Jno-Lewis sought to comfort him when saying, “Stay strong cuz I love you put it in God’s hands…”
Then at approximately 11:00am the first post was edited which then read, “Death......... so scary yet so peaceful.........so simple but yet misunderstood#lifesucks”
He also apparently posted a gruesome photograph of an angry evil image which also gave an indication of his state of mind at the time.
Malone said that he was at work yesterday when hit with the disturbing news. He said, “I didn’t know what was bothering him, nobody didn’t know what was bothering him. He was generally a strong person. We don’t know what went through the mind. I seeing stuff on Facebook but I don’t know, I don’t know.”
But could the young life have been saved had three persons who respond to his message pressed for further information from him or simply alerted someone? It may be a case that those persons did not expect such a drastic action or never thought that his postings were serious and warranted further interventions.
How to Identify signals of a person having intentions to commit suicide!
WebMD - Recognize the Warning Signs of Suicide
SUICIDE WARNING -- Depression carries a high risk of suicide. Anybody who expresses suicidal thoughts or intentions should be taken very seriously. Do not hesitate to call your local suicide hotline immediately. Call 800-SUICIDE (800-784-2433) or 800-273-TALK (800-273-8255) or the deaf hotline at 800-799-4889.
The best way to minimize the risk of suicide is to know the risk factors and to recognize the warning signs of suicide. Take these signs seriously. Know how to respond to them. It could save someone's life.
How Prevalent Is Suicide?
Suicide is a potentially preventable public health problem. In 2009, the last year for which statistics are available, suicide was the 10th leading cause of death in the U.S. That year, there were nearly 37,000 suicides, and 1 million people attempted suicide, according to the Centers for Disease Control.
Men take their lives nearly four times the rate of women, accounting for 79% of suicides in the U.S.
Are There Risk Factors for Suicide?
Risk factors for suicide vary by age, gender, and ethnic group. And risk factors often occur in combinations.
Over 90% of people who die by suicide have clinical depression or another diagnosable mental disorder. Many times, people who die by suicide have an alcohol or substance abuse problem. Often they have that problem in combination with other mental disorders.
Adverse or traumatic life events in combination with other risk factors, such as clinical depression, may lead to suicide. But suicide and suicidal behavior are never normal responses to stress.
Other risk factors for suicide include:
One or more prior suicide attempts, Family history of mental disorder or substance abuse, Family history of suicide, Family violence, Physical or sexual abuse, Keeping firearms in the home, Chronic physical illness, including chronic pain, Incarceration, Exposure to the suicidal behavior of others.
Are There Warning Signs of Suicide?
Warning signs that someone may be thinking about or planning to commit suicide include:
Always talking or thinking about death
Clinical depression -- deep sadness, loss of interest, trouble sleeping and eating -- that gets worse
Having a "death wish," tempting fate by taking risks that could lead to death, such as driving fast or running red lights
Losing interest in things one used to care about
Making comments about being hopeless, helpless, or worthless
Putting affairs in order, tying up loose ends, changing a will
Saying things like "it would be better if I wasn't here" or "I want out"
Sudden, unexpected switch from being very sad to being very calm or appearing to be happy
Talking about suicide or killing one's self
Visiting or calling people to say goodbye
Be especially concerned if a person is exhibiting any of these warning signs and has attempted suicide in the past. According to the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention, between 20% and 50% of people who commit suicide have had a previous attempt.
See previous story published on October 26, 2014:
17 year old Dead @ Mount Healthy
MOUNT HEALTHY, Tortola, VI - Word just reaching this news site indicates that a 17 year old male was found dead at Mount Healthy sometime this afternoon October 26, 2014.
According to our reliable source the youth is said to be a black male.
Police Public Relations Officer Diane Drayton confirmed that a report was made at 3:00 PM today of a male in the Mount Healthy area who was unresponsive.
"He was later pronounced dead. Police continue inquiries," said Drayton to this news site.
Up to post time Police were still on the scene carrying out their investigations.
This news site will bring details as they become available.
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71 Responses to “UPDATE: Chadil Parson left suicide note on FB page”
The Bible says people will become lovers of self....hence the "selfie". Give it a rest. It seems like posts about foolishness receives more "likes" than positive messages. Wake up people.
To Wize Up: You should be ashamed of yourself. A family has just lost a child and all you can do is put politics into it. Where is your heart? The death of this child hits me as if it was my own. I am so saddened and we in this Territory should all be reaching out to the family at this time. There are many other children in this Territory who at some point and time go through some sort of depression and it has nothing to do with politics. We as a community need to be there for each other. It is this child today but who will it be tomorrow. It may be one of your own family. Please stop dragging politics into everything especially in times like this. If you cannot say good, then say nothing!
To the family, pray for his soul and I hope that one day you may find peace.
My heart goes out to the family may God strengthen you in this time of loss.
Please don't play the where were his parents because I'm pretty sure they would have done anything to save their child.
Try talking to someone from the Family Support Network, a trusted church minister, a past school councilor, or someone at the Mental Health clinic. They are trained to handle such matters. There are also several youth councilors who might be able to assist, one that comes to mind is Mr Henderson Tittle. Do what you can to get your friend some help. This is bigger than you.
sound like a sk@@t
He was as sweet they come and tortured beyond measure. Parents heed the decisions u make. Even in their best interest you can hurt your child for life.