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DR woman claims her VI born child does not feel welcomed @ school

- said her teen son complains of being teased about his DR heritage
September 28th, 2020 | Tags: teased Monica Samuel Heritage Vincent O. Wheatley unity
Monica Samuel, a native of the Dominican Republic who has lived in the Virgin Islands for many years, has claimed that although her teenaged son is born in the [British] Virgin Islands (VI), he is often teased about his Dominican heritage and made to feel unwelcomed by his peers. Photo: Facebook
Minister for Natural Resources, Labour and Immigration, Honourable Vincent O. Wheatley (R9) has condemned the discrimination of persons because of their nationality and heritage. Photo: VINO/File
Minister for Natural Resources, Labour and Immigration, Honourable Vincent O. Wheatley (R9) has condemned the discrimination of persons because of their nationality and heritage. Photo: VINO/File
The Virgin Islands Party (VIP) Government, led by Premier and Minister of Finance, Hon Andrew A. Fahie (R1) has been pushing for a spirt of unity among all people of the Virgin Islands. In December 2019, the Government gave Belonger and Residency status to some 1500 expatriates who had been living and working in the Territory for 20 years and more. Photo: Facebook
The Virgin Islands Party (VIP) Government, led by Premier and Minister of Finance, Hon Andrew A. Fahie (R1) has been pushing for a spirt of unity among all people of the Virgin Islands. In December 2019, the Government gave Belonger and Residency status to some 1500 expatriates who had been living and working in the Territory for 20 years and more. Photo: Facebook
VALLEY, Virgin Gorda, VI- A mother from the Dominican Republic has claimed that although her teenaged son is born in the [British] Virgin Islands (VI), he is often teased about his Dominican heritage and made to feel unwelcomed by his peers.

Monica Samuel, a businesswoman who has been residing on Virgin Gorda for the past 25 years, made the revelation on Sunday, September 27, 2020, during a live discussion with Minister for Natural Resources, Labour and Immigration, Honourable Vincent O. Wheatley (R9).

She said she chose to allow her child to be born in the Territory, as opposed to the neighbouring US Virgin Islands (USVI), because of her love for the VI.

“When he started to go school, it was hard for me because they started calling him, ‘Spanish boy’, ‘Spanish this, Spanish that’. Many times my child coming crying… I said [to him] honey, just tell your friends you are proud to be Spanish, but you are proud to be English,” she said.

She informed that she raised the issue with the school, because her son was not feeling ‘welcomed’.

“It’s very hard …even [if] they [were] born here, it’s very rough,” she added.

Minister Wheatley said it "really hurt my heart that as human beings, we can be so cruel sometimes with children.”

Unity

He then called for unity and a halt to the practice.

The Virgin Islands Party (VIP) Government, led by Premier and Minister of Finance, Hon Andrew A. Fahie (R1) has been pushing for a spirt of unity among all people of the Virgin Islands.

In December 2019, the Government gave Belonger and Residency status to some 1500 expatriates who had been living and working in the Territory for 20 years and more. 

Premier Fahie had noted that the certificate was more than just a piece of paper, “it is our Government’s statement and the people of the Virgin Islands’ statement that we recognise you as a member of our community and as a person that is now a Virgin Islander.”

58 Responses to “DR woman claims her VI born child does not feel welcomed @ school”

  • lol (28/09/2020, 09:20) Like (1) Dislike (37) Reply
    He dropped out here
  • Thanks for sharing (28/09/2020, 09:27) Like (65) Dislike (1) Reply
    I'm a black BVI-Lander, and I've witnessed persons calling others out by their ethnic group. I too have probably done the same when I was younger. That was me being young and foolish. We need to educate our young people that someone should not be acknowledged by his/her ethnicity, but by their name.
    • yeah (28/09/2020, 19:34) Like (2) Dislike (0) Reply
      Tell that to all who call people from islands east of the BVI down island people- that is no different from what the kids do to this child ... same thing
  • lol (28/09/2020, 09:28) Like (7) Dislike (84) Reply
    These damn island people
  • YOLO (28/09/2020, 09:29) Like (49) Dislike (6) Reply
    im a spanish boy to born in the vi....His problem is he just have to show he don't care and moved like no can't touch him...but he have to have the might to back that up.....he got to find more spanish children and hang with them. together we are united.....from time you keep on showing your weakness it game over. stop raising soft children.
  • Shit it (28/09/2020, 09:32) Like (2) Dislike (81) Reply
    Carry he back where you from then
  • fat virgin (28/09/2020, 09:32) Like (5) Dislike (51) Reply
    she made that up, lets hear from the child
  • VG residents (28/09/2020, 09:32) Like (5) Dislike (76) Reply
    Stop the lies we bvi people are good people bvi love. If you and your son don’t feel welcomed leave then
    • Me (28/09/2020, 10:07) Like (0) Dislike (6) Reply
      Got to be, because if he was born here was he not going to school here all the time or did she take him back to the DR and now hes back to be schooled here as a teen. If he just came I can see that happening. Its human nature all over the World, we are not the only one that does it even though its not right
    • BVIslander (28/09/2020, 10:08) Like (38) Dislike (1) Reply
      I am a BVIslander and plenty times over the past 35 years I have witnessed the kind of behavior she spoke about. They call the Arab children terrorist, the whites, hunky and the list goes on. They even make fun of children with special needs. BVislander please raise your children better.
      • BVIslander too (28/09/2020, 13:18) Like (8) Dislike (17) Reply
        You are right, but BVI children suffer most in school. Most migrants arm their children with words to belittle us.
        The next thing that is not being addressed is the fact that bvislanders always taking the blame. When elections come the say it's more Expats than locals, but convenienly when abuses happen the minority are the victims WHICH MAKES NO SENSE. not because one child in a school system longer than another mean the earlier student is bvislander. Majority of locals send their children to private school to save them from abuse by migrant bullies. So the culprits here are unlikely to be locals but comrad migrants instead.
    • Reader (28/09/2020, 23:09) Like (0) Dislike (0) Reply
      @ VG Residents...Did you read over your comment to see if it made sense before you posted it. It doesn't seem so to me.
  • Ummm (28/09/2020, 09:33) Like (28) Dislike (1) Reply
    Miss, I feel your pain. Many expats are subjected to humiliation here in the BVI. Funny how mister calling for unity...I will leave it as that
  • Factual (28/09/2020, 09:33) Like (9) Dislike (26) Reply
    Maybe because his Spanish accent is heavy and the kids don’t understand so they teased him stop making small things big
    • Soo.... (28/09/2020, 10:32) Like (10) Dislike (1) Reply
      So it’s ok for the other children to tease him because of his accent ??
  • blood (28/09/2020, 09:35) Like (29) Dislike (4) Reply
    These bvi people children turinjng our just like them parents and grandparents I hear children already using the term down island and island people. That is not cool
  • now (28/09/2020, 09:36) Like (5) Dislike (49) Reply
    Government need send she home from lying
  • VG (28/09/2020, 10:05) Like (2) Dislike (23) Reply
    she looking to get in the spotlight thats all she soon going bawl to the government thats what them spanish people love to do cry cry cry they want help thats all she looking but child being tease ofr god and heaven sake stop the damn cry.
  • Made it worse (28/09/2020, 10:06) Like (9) Dislike (12) Reply
    He have to learn how to deal with it. I went to school in the US, was born in the US to parents from the BVI and the kids use to tease me about my parents living in coconut trees and grass huts. I think the lady is making to much of a big deal out of nothing. Now the bullies is going to really tease her son.
  • HMMMMMMMMM (28/09/2020, 10:14) Like (9) Dislike (0) Reply
    maybe the principal of the school need to be called in on this allegation and try to make some sense of it.
  • j.j. (28/09/2020, 10:31) Like (18) Dislike (0) Reply
    when I was a child going to school many many years ago, particularly at the pre primary and primary level, i too was subject to being called "spanish this" and "spanish that". even though at the time it hurt me (never cried about it though), it allowed me to learn from the good and the bad. the environment taught me how the world can be, as opposed to how we wish the world to be. to Ms. Samuel, I will tell you this. I went through the same exact thing with many classmates, but those same classmates grew, matured, and phased out that behavior because that's what it is....a phase. i take great pleasure in telling you that many of those same classmates that behaved that way then, and are far from being that way now, are very good and close friends of mines. overall, we have some very great people in these Virgin Islands. as me and my former classmates reminisce on these experiences, sometimes we laugh about it. hopefully your son develops a strong sense of self esteem where he can say "sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will NEVER hurt me." hoping he will come out a great and wonderful human being in the end. que Dios le bendiga mucho a usted y su familia Monica.
    • True (28/09/2020, 12:10) Like (6) Dislike (3) Reply
      exactly my point, children are cruel the world over but as they grow freindships are created that last a lifetime, she took her son away and now wants him to slide back in, its her fault that he is feeling this way. She should of left him in school but instead she took him back to the DR for schooling and now expects him to come back in and resume, well its the beginning again so let your son work it out,support him.
  • Life is hard (28/09/2020, 10:35) Like (8) Dislike (14) Reply
    This is stupid. Because she just made it worse for her son because now everyone knows he soft and goes running to mommy. I left BVI at a young age and lived in America. Its the same, I was teased when I spoke, I was teased for my clothing. You deal with it, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. He needs to focus that frustration into something positive like education or sports. That was my answer. Kids don't tease children who excell in sports and academics.

    You lack education and your child soft. Fix it!
  • lol (28/09/2020, 10:35) Like (3) Dislike (7) Reply
    We all got teased for some reason or the other as kids in school. He'll toughen up and learn to deal with the real world. I got teased for being fat and slow. You only made things worse for him by going public.
  • Fake News (28/09/2020, 10:35) Like (6) Dislike (3) Reply
    I call bull jive. I remember in school, the Spanish girl them were the hottest and everyone had want them. The Spanish man was some of the most popular. Now all of a sudden, the BVI reject Spanish people?
  • Shoe (28/09/2020, 11:26) Like (9) Dislike (1) Reply
    Its terrible, but I can't help but to think about the treatment of Haitian and how quick DR is to dismiss their African heritage, no one likes to be mistreated but we often forget when were are the ones in power.
  • Racism (28/09/2020, 11:26) Like (1) Dislike (0) Reply
    plain and simple
  • everything (28/09/2020, 12:07) Like (1) Dislike (7) Reply
    You can see in her picture, the attitude this will be taught to her son. Now children are cruel everywhere in the world, everyone gets teased , picked on at some time, she just wants to be seen. The problem she mentions would not happen to a teen boy if he was in school and was playing with his freinds from all the communities while growing up and there is the problem. The spanish copmmuiity want to keep to the spanish community and so her son only has interactions with them and so the cycle begins and continues. This is HER FAULT not her sons not the school but HER FAULT, I listened last night to the meeting so not just taking the juicy bits from the news sites, again, its HER FAULT her son feels this way.
  • guy hill (28/09/2020, 12:39) Like (11) Dislike (0) Reply
    Its a terrible thing. I experienced some at CAHS in my short stint there in the 70's, but I was a different kinda different child. You call me names you get the same shit thrown back at you. My mom told me I had a voice and she did not leave it in her uterus.
    • Exactly (29/09/2020, 06:05) Like (1) Dislike (0) Reply
      Tell them...I’m bilingual. How many languages do you speak, English boy? ...and you can hardly speak that... It’s certainly not the Queen’s English...lol...She has no idea what to tell him to tell them. Diversity and inclusion must be taught.
  • Maddd citizens (28/09/2020, 12:44) Like (1) Dislike (9) Reply
    Send some them island people out of the BVI
  • Brave One (28/09/2020, 13:03) Like (16) Dislike (1) Reply
    All these negative blogging only confirms what she is speaking about and what her child experienced/is experiencing! She was the only brave one to come forward and share reality publicly. There are many other victims and they are afraid to speak up because of this exact public ridicule. But instead they keep quiet and have persons say we don't have discrimination in the BVI. She really hit the nail on the head by sharing her experience and you all still come and bash her instead you look at your children, family, friends, community and encourage them not to discriminate or tease anyone that may 'seem' like an expat or should I say, in layman's terms a 'down island man/woman'. Ya'll missed the part that even though she went through that because she loved your BVI 'islands' she still stayed and helped to develop it over 25yrs. For sharing your personal experience and reality being discriminated in the BVI, I commend you Monica.
  • OMG (28/09/2020, 13:16) Like (6) Dislike (0) Reply
    The Hispanics I know are more family oriented, religious and harder workers than any of my friends.
  • NICK (28/09/2020, 13:43) Like (1) Dislike (1) Reply
    So sad. This was not first started with the school, nor the children, but in some homes, grown up and the blogs where these unscrupulous and derogatory remarks are being made. If we continue to sow
  • OK Then (28/09/2020, 13:44) Like (5) Dislike (1) Reply
    Tola has nothing to offer. Even if your child born here it makes no sense. Thats why I went ti the USA and birth my child so when he's he pack and go The USA wont turn him away, equal rights and justice. God is going to rest his hands on this place soon
    • ReX FeRal (28/09/2020, 15:42) Like (1) Dislike (1) Reply
      @Ok Then. Hope God rest his hands on you and your evil badminded self.
  • simple (28/09/2020, 14:36) Like (4) Dislike (0) Reply
    From the comments here, we all can see why children are the way they are. No good and genuine role models around.
  • chin up (28/09/2020, 15:21) Like (6) Dislike (0) Reply

    Most of us who born here while one or both parents from the caribbean islands also had to deal with that same bulls*****. However, educate him as to who is and what he can expect while in his tender age, so ask him to ignore those negative persons and focus on his future goal because this is where it all begin. Pay more attention to his education and know his friends. Keep him ahead in his studies and let nature take its course.

  • Lou Roome (28/09/2020, 17:06) Like (8) Dislike (0) Reply
    Monica is a business own and always friendly to everyone who walks in the door of her restaurant. People that are saying “send them home” are the same people that would be rioting(notice I didn’t say protesting) in the USA. Just because you are “born here” does not give anyone the right to think they are any better then anyone, especially someone working to try and make the BVI a better place. VG is a better place because of people like Monica. It’s disgusting to see people putting down a mother for talking about how her son feels he is being treated. What would happens to our country if all if the down islander and other expats were to leave and the BVI were just left with people looking for handouts? Then who are we going to be pointing fingers at?
  • tretretrete (28/09/2020, 17:09) Like (1) Dislike (2) Reply
    Where is the boy father? He isnt going through anything most of us didnt have to deal with...... maybe he is just soft and doesnt have a real man in his life tp teach him how to be strong. The government need to know when the problems in the community are a result from broken homes..... Not everything thats a problem in the community is the government responsibility.
  • KRN (28/09/2020, 21:02) Like (1) Dislike (0) Reply
    I had to buss a lot of heads when I was younger for people trying tease me for my spanish background .Now people don’t even remember I speak Spanish. I think you making it worse for the child going public on this. Teasing never stops even as adults. Have to train your mind to be stronger than everything else.
  • A confused teen (28/09/2020, 22:01) Like (0) Dislike (0) Reply
    Woooww y’all are so ignorant in these comments. First you say the teens getting outta hands then and parents need to take control, then when someone voices their issues, you’re saying he need to toughen up and that’s how kids are. Ayo need to pick one man, because bullying is just the start to a bigger matter, and when either the bully or the kid getting bullied start messing with drugs and gun, ayo going have something to say.
  • Dka (28/09/2020, 22:13) Like (0) Dislike (0) Reply
    It is my call for people to stop being racist and learn how to get along with our friends, both Dominican Venezuelans, and English is because we are all the same race, domos and that is what our children teach
  • DA Realist (28/09/2020, 23:33) Like (0) Dislike (0) Reply
    I felt my heart wrenched from your comments about how your son is treated! This reaction and comments from his peers is a learnt behaviour....it is nothing to be proud about. We as parents need to do better and we can! Teach our children from small that we all are different and unique in our own special ways...this is what makes us who and what we are! Its not because we were teased as children means that it was right or that it must continue. We need to nip it in the bud before it takes root and grow. Since this is occurring at school, the Principal needs to look into this matter and stop promoting bullying at the school. Educate the children about their heritage and ancestors...so that they can be proud to be a part of a legacy that lives on. Monica, I will say this to you... let him accept who he is, he is part Spanish and part English, so that even if his peers say, "Spanish boy" to him; he would have already claimed that aspect of himself and therefore it would not be offensive to him. Don't let him grow with malice in his heart for those who oppose or ridicule him. Let him take part in a discipline, eg. judo or karate, have him channel his actions there. Thanks for sharing part of your private life with us...I know it takes guts to do what you did, but you did it out of "LOVE" for your son. A lot of us would have love to do the same but are too "stuck up." May God bless you and your handsome son. Maybe "J.J" can reach out to you and be an encouragement for him to boost his self-esteem and spirit.
  • born here (29/09/2020, 00:10) Like (0) Dislike (0) Reply
    Resentment between indigenous Virgin Islanders and Expats has been happening for very long time. It is almost like it has been passed down from generation to generation. However it is up to all of us to change it. We cant expect locals to be ok with feeling second class. Therefore, dont treat them like second class. Before that 1500 people got their belongers you all should held meetings, not after the fact. Gov. you all adding to the hate too. Another thing, when persons voiced their upset over it, the government adjust. However all the while, those expats got no communication for a long while, wondering what is happening. Treat people like people.

  • It needs to Stop (29/09/2020, 06:15) Like (0) Dislike (0) Reply
    My mother was a BVIlander but my father was from down island thus my last name was down island sounding. I got teased mercilessly for that and my own mother’s uncle would call me a “Garrot”. It was hurtful. The child should not be harassed.
  • LCS (29/09/2020, 08:03) Like (1) Dislike (0) Reply
    This happens everywhere, at this same stage and/or age of your son's. It is your responsibility, as his Mother, to teach him and give him the tools to assert himself and don't mind what other people call him. Make him feel proud of your Latin heritage. Teach him about it. Tell him how lucky he is he has two Mother Countries. It can be turned into a positive experience and outcome. His character will depend in what you teach him to deal with LIFE. I am a female from P.R. who also suffered prejudice as a young student from my peers in private elementary school. Born in the same place, but dark skin color & curly hair; called black by them. But my parents taught me not to let it affect me in a negative way. Kids can be cruel at that age. Teach your son some selfsteem and don't whine. He'll be a whinner too.
  • sorry (29/09/2020, 08:22) Like (4) Dislike (0) Reply
    I am so sorry for your son’s discomfort. However, this may be an opportunity for both of you to educate Dominicans back home about the racism Haitians and dark skinned Dominicans suffer every day. Create a platform to help your fellow countrymen understand that there is a world outside of the DR, that too holds biased and bigoted belief systems, just like them, and they have to be the change they want to see.


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