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Alleged High School navel piercing outrages parent

- claims daughter’s navel pierced in washroom of ESHS
One caller on the Speak Your Mind TV show was outraged after his daughter allegedly had her navel pierced in the washroom of the ESHS. Photo:belly-button-rings-guide
ROAD TOWN, Tortola, VI – One caller on the Speak Your Mind Television programme aired on March 2, 2013 has expressed outrage with the allegation that his teenage daughter had her navel pierced in the washroom of the Elmore Stoutt High School.

“Earlier in the week, my daughter came home with her navel pierced, from in the High School,” the caller expressed before telling the host that he was at the end of his "rope".

The caller further alleged during the programme, which was aired on a local television station, that he has not been able to reach the Principal of the High School for three days and is seeking justice for the situation. “I am calling on the Minister of Education… to spearhead this operation, or else I’ll have to take matters into my own hands,” the caller expressed with visible restraint in his voice.

He questioned the possibility of a young child piercing other students’ navels at the school and the quality of instruments used in the procedure. “Everyone [of the students are] minors… what is going on in this school today?” the outraged caller questioned. “I am trying not to lose my composure,” he continued.

He further stated that he is not far from taking legal action in the matter after having allegedly reported the act at the Road Town Police Station.

Host of the programme, Courtney de Castro, expressed that it was a serious situation and related to the caller that he was uncertain whether there was any legal ground to take action but was assured that there was sufficient moral ground to stand on.

“Morality ain’t cutting it right now,” the caller said as he interrupted the host’s statement.

“The law would say that your daughter is a minor and that you’re responsible for her,” de Castro continued, “and from that point of view, you would have to pursue this.”

The caller conceded that his daughter was a minor and that he may be responsible for her but questioned whether he should have to go into the school to ensure that such occurrences do not happen to her. “From the time they enter the gate, do you realise that the Elmore Stoutt High School is a secured facility [with] security guards all the way around… exactly what are you telling me sir?” he asked.

After de Castro offered that he should go to the school to “deal with it”, he reiterated that he went to the school previously and "got no satisfaction from the principal."

Co-host of the programme, Julio ‘Sam’ Henry, agreed with the caller that there were grounds for legal action. “To me that’s an assault…” Henry stated, “as long as your daughter is telling you the truth, you need to go with the Police Department, go to the school, identify the young lady who is doing it and press charges.”

He suggested that if the caller was to take any sort of legal action, then it was advisable that he secure some sort of documented proof that the occurrence was indeed taking place at the school. “The only legitimate source would be the Police,” Henry suggested while offering that there was no difference with a scenario where a fight had occurred between two students and the child had come home with a broken nose and the matter had been taken to the Police.

“I did in fact make a report to the Police… to the Family and Juvenile Department, so I’m just waiting on some results in that Department right there,” the caller said.

“I say this at the other hand at the same time… your child also should be held accountable for allowing herself to get involved with that situation,” Henry added, “if she’s allowing herself to sit there and be pierced, you also have to come down on your child.”

“That will be done, that was already dealt with,” the caller responded.

44 Responses to “Alleged High School navel piercing outrages parent”

  • zoe (03/03/2013, 09:12) Like (1) Dislike (1) Reply
    This VICE aint done, this VICE muss stop, this VICE tis bad for dey kids.
    • seems (04/03/2013, 08:57) Like (1) Dislike (0) Reply
      Yes it cheaper to do this at school but more difficult to procure and not heatly
  • bay yute (03/03/2013, 09:43) Like (1) Dislike (0) Reply
    Does such an activity exist in the high school?
  • never again (03/03/2013, 09:47) Like (9) Dislike (40) Reply
    fire the Minister of Education he is impotent!

    CALL SNAP ELECTIONS NOW!
    • long look me come from (03/03/2013, 15:16) Like (0) Dislike (69) Reply
      and gtive it to Penn or Deloris dem both from here!
      • ta ta (03/03/2013, 18:01) Like (0) Dislike (6) Reply
        That's the trouble, I can't tell whether Walwyn is thinking outside the box or just thinking about the box.

    • -------------- (03/03/2013, 15:53) Like (3) Dislike (33) Reply
      I agree with "never again' because i am tired of Myron and the NDP self-righteous garbage thinking that they can spew some pathetic party rhetoric and not come up with ONE solution for our woes.
    • stupidness (04/03/2013, 19:40) Like (18) Dislike (1) Reply
      What do this have to do with the Minister of Education? He appointed a principal, is the principal not doing his job. Where are his assistants. What are they doing? Just sitting down in their office and not paying attention to the children on campus. The campus is very big and you are going to need proper supervision Mr. Principal. You cannot do it all by yourself. Stop trying to micro-manage. DELEGATE the work to your teachers. Give them more task to do it is their job to supervise these young people on the school campus. Mr. Principal remember that this school is much bigger than the SDA where you came from. Get out of the office and walk around your school every minute of the day. If you want your school to be successful you have to monitor it closely. I also fault these parents of today who not doing a good job on parenting. They expect the teachers and the administrators to raise their children, then when they do that they want to press all kind of charges against them. What is it going to be? PARENTS raise your children like you were raised. I am sure you could not do half the stuff that you allowing your children to get away with presently, so why are you allowing them to behave in this manner. It is time for the parents of the BVI to train up their children in the way they should go and when they are old they will not depart from the training received. PARENTS stop trying to be your child's friend.
      • Teacher (05/03/2013, 23:28) Like (0) Dislike (0) Reply
        Do you have any idea how much work we have to do as teachers? Delegate more work to us for what. Every month some other new task or work is placed on us.. and we must function because we name TEACHER. My work does not finish at 4:30 like some government workers.. when you all sleeping, we up until 4 am in the morning marking papers and putting grades into power school... and now you want us to do what. Please.. IF THEY GIVE ME anymore task to do I am going to drop down. I am so into doing the government work, that my child is telling me I am negleting him. So I must be there for other people's children and not my own...

        Please
    • light (05/03/2013, 10:44) Like (0) Dislike (6) Reply
      Myron should never have been in that post...or any post of authority for that matter
  • Angry Birds (03/03/2013, 09:53) Like (42) Dislike (1) Reply
    Why he ( the caller ) treating this as a rape charge? Obvously the young lady wanted her navel pierced so she did it, and besides how is he so she got it at the school and not some time before.. Your parenting is the thing that should be in question
    • Agree (04/03/2013, 06:34) Like (2) Dislike (0) Reply
      I agree with angry birds and Billy's. well said
    • Fed Up (07/03/2013, 10:11) Like (1) Dislike (0) Reply
      I totally agreed with you Angry Bird and Billyb, his parenting should be question here. If you lay your ground rules down in your home you daughter should have know that she can't pierce her navel. It starts in the home. Why go on the radio bashing at someone else when it’s your daughter that came home with a piercing. I just don't get some of you parents out there. I am not saying you are not a good parent but if you lay your rules down then she shouldn’t go against them. I was bussing her backside in when she got home with that piercing. I have 4 children and when my kids was growing up they knew just what was accepted and what was not and I didn’t want to hear no stories about a friend do this or that. Whoever did the piercing couldn’t have done it with out the permission of your daughter. I hate when out children do wrong and we try to cover it up by blaming someone else. The first thing you should of done was make her take it out then put some licks on her. If my children make a mistake and come home with someone of there friend belonging they marching back to where they got it and take it back much less a piercing. You have to lay the rules down in your home big man. This is where these children go wrong by making them think its ok by go blaming someone else for what they did wrong. You come on radio bashing everybody except your child. Bull crap man. You swear the person hold her down and do it to her. It all starts in the home. Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.
  • billyb (03/03/2013, 10:28) Like (54) Dislike (5) Reply
    this called need to shut his stupid a$$ and leave the damn principal alone. he dont have a principal/high school problem, he have a parental problem. i have two sons and a daughter in high school, let any one of them drunk enough to tell me that they have a piercing or tattoo without my consent, LORD SEND HELP FOR THEM!!!!!

    i should be the principal for this idiot to call me, i would put some holy MF under he and repent later. he need to take this issue up with his uncontrollable daughter and leave the princiipal alone. get a spine and dicipline your damn child and stop looking for people to blame
    • TO; billyb (03/03/2013, 15:41) Like (2) Dislike (10) Reply
      Never have I heard or read so much garbage being spewed by NDP lackeys.
  • Responsibility (03/03/2013, 10:30) Like (43) Dislike (1) Reply
    Unless your daughter was forced to undergo this procedure, she is responsible for her actions. I would assume that she had to undo her blouse and lift up her vest to have the procedure done. What seems to be lacking here is education. You need to take personal responsibility and educate your daughter about the realities of life and the dangers of making bad choices. Once you do that it is up to her to use the tools wisely. If she consented to have this procedure done on her, it is obvious she did not give any consideration to the health risk or she is willing to accept whatever the outcome. I will end with this question. When was the last time you had a real father-daughter conversation with her; food for thought.
  • When??? (03/03/2013, 12:29) Like (35) Dislike (1) Reply
    As a parent of two children I am very very worried about their future. I see society deteriorating at high speed. Parents cannot see their roles anymore. This guy cannot see that the problem actually lies with him and that he is actually compounding the issue by casting blame on everyone else. You have shown your daughter that she is not responsible for her actions becasue it is the school's and principal's fault. Parent please take charge of your children! Give them high self esteem and show them good values! This is getting to be very sickening now!! Did you want the principal to follow her to the toilet and them make sure that she actually did something in the toilet? REALLY MAN!!!!
  • a friend (03/03/2013, 13:49) Like (9) Dislike (1) Reply
    Lol it's the parenting style and the lack of respect towards the parents
  • Roxy (03/03/2013, 13:57) Like (22) Dislike (1) Reply
    Mister, do you really think that the Principal or the teachers should follow the kids all over the Campus??? Do you think that this is all that goes on in the bathrooms?? You need to teach your daughter how to be a lady and stop pulling down her clothes to have her navel tattooed. You need to instill some discipline in her and make sure she has some self esteem. You need to start being a father to her and stop trying to blame the School and the principal.
  • Be real (03/03/2013, 14:44) Like (16) Dislike (0) Reply
    I attended BVI from 2002 to 2007 and I must say the times have change. This generation had lost its way. There are a few points I have to make. 1) the parents of today are to slack in their kids. Tell me y at 13, 14, or 15 ur child have the latest technology and ain't even have a C average in school. And y the children this same age out later than you in the weekend? When u send ur child to school they have this mentality that they could do whatever they want. The teachers and school official are not there to baby sit ur child. They cant be every pkace they are. If your children have to proper guidence from home they won't even think on doing something like that. 2) we need to go back whena vivillage raise a child. It sad to see now that when a child do something wrong a grown adult cannot correct them anymore without the parent ir child cursing them back. If a child has the balls to curse an adult or see u as a parent curse the adult howcan they do better? Parenting starts at home not at school.
    • tell the truth (03/03/2013, 16:17) Like (5) Dislike (74) Reply
      the real problem is the Minsiter who is a very arrogant man who is power-hungry..does not listen to teachers, parents or his staff
    • parent (03/03/2013, 18:09) Like (3) Dislike (0) Reply
      Some of these parents don't have a computer themself, much less to know how to follow the history the children leaves behind.
  • ooooo (03/03/2013, 17:11) Like (1) Dislike (22) Reply
    we moving from great to good under myron...all this happened on his watch
  • nonsense (03/03/2013, 18:29) Like (15) Dislike (0) Reply
    How is the principal or the school responsible? Are they suppose to go in the bathrooms now with the students? Struuuppps.....I remember at one time at a parent/teachers meeting when they announced that cameras would be placed in bathrooms; not in the stalls but in the general area of the bathroom. If this was done, then it can determine if the child really had it done on the campus or if she is lying. She's a high school student, so she full well knows what she was doing. Not another soul to blame but she herself because she allowed it to happen. If it was a situation where other students held her down against her will, well that's a totally different story. Although the principal should be made aware of what can be a new trend in the school, I don't think the blame should be thrown at him. So what does it mean, that whevever this child gets into "sauce" outside of the home, her father will be blaming everyone else but her? He needs to talk to her about being a leader and not a follower, and being responsible for her own actions.
  • mad (03/03/2013, 19:26) Like (13) Dislike (0) Reply
    Caller-u hav failed as a parent...
    Done talk....
  • Seriously (03/03/2013, 20:03) Like (6) Dislike (1) Reply
    I think he accepts that he has failed some how as a parent... we are all missing the point, what's the point of securities and gate searches if those things could still happen in the high school? Seriously worried about that, this man may have a case! Thinking outside the Box!
    • wongchichi (05/03/2013, 10:20) Like (3) Dislike (0) Reply
      um the same searches that parents are complaining about the delays on their kids ? I do recall the metal detectors having to be removed because of this. and how bout maybe searching your kids bag every now and again..

      furthermore this leads back to one thing... ALL of these kids who are partaking in this dysfunctional behavior are lacking structure and leadership in life ... And all of that starts with the parents. Its like the schools are now responsible for raising the kids.
      • Seriously (05/03/2013, 15:57) Like (1) Dislike (0) Reply
        My Dear you have a valid point! Some parents think because they carry a child for nine months only them are allowed to discipline that child.... I was 18 and afraid to carry a boy home or even let it known that I started dating and I had already graduated from high school.. some parents want to fight just because their children say somebody did something... Lessons to be learnt here.. I do agree they will realise how important the screening is/was!!!
  • Real Parent (03/03/2013, 21:39) Like (6) Dislike (0) Reply
    This crazy father is looking for someone to blame for his daughter's action when she willing commited the act. I agree she is a minor but should know right from wrong. As a father you need to start being a father because daughter is out of control.
  • Eagle Eye (04/03/2013, 06:33) Like (1) Dislike (2) Reply
    is she charging for her service? i think she should become a surgion.please look into this girl skills
  • Jacksprat (04/03/2013, 09:33) Like (5) Dislike (1) Reply
    The problem is we want to blame someone, anyone for our children's action. When one child choose to be tattooed in the bathroom, it is a conscious choice on her part. Parents cannot blame the education system for their children's bad judgement. Morality and values are the parents responsibility and should be taught at home.
    While this child was having this piercing done many other students were actively engaged. And by the way security is there for the well bieng of All students on campus. If the same security you are referring to was to follow your child in the bathroom on suspicion of any wrongdoing, you same parent would have found grounds to seek legal action.

    Take time from running the blame game and have a serious talk with your child. She is responsible for the choices she make . This situation is in no way trivial. However, she will at some point move on to a higher institution, where she may be exposed to other vices. Would she participate in them without thinking? Come on young people think before you act. There is a difference between voluntary and involuntary actions. We all have choices.
  • Cause it's not your child (04/03/2013, 10:28) Like (0) Dislike (24) Reply
    WOw only when it's sex with a minor everybody on board, how come they don't be saying she wanted it, they quick to say statutory rape. If she had sex in the bathroom willingly would ya'll comment the same. The girl was on school time, of course the school is responsible did they encourge it no but they Are responsible, is there any question about her morality of course but that is besides the point!!!!!!! Cant believe how everyone here negatively commenting about the parent.

  • Keep Calm (04/03/2013, 11:46) Like (1) Dislike (27) Reply
    They say give Jack his jacket....but SOOOOOOOOOOO MUCH DRAMA in the schools under this Minister's headship. Not that he has no control over who does what, BUT What's really going on? There should be a great concern of this uncontrollable teen. I REALLY HAVE TO ASK THOUGH... how did her dad see that? Is he fooling around his daughter? Did she fall ill or was she dressed to show dad "it's a done deal"? Whatever it is, it's a serious problem here.
    • say so (04/03/2013, 13:10) Like (1) Dislike (0) Reply
      Keep calm u aint makin sense....... If they live in such close proxy of course she might wear something that might reveal her navel area as she is in the walls of her own home. U all always hav to employ that everythin is sexual......
      • wong chi chi (05/03/2013, 14:48) Like (0) Dislike (0) Reply
        he's making a lil sense..if i was 14 and respected my parent and did something i know they'd object to I am not letting them see... and this is a belly button piercing not something that is easily visible wearing normal clothes... so it stands to infer either
        a) she really didn't think her dad would trip cause he lets her do what she wants so she wore something belly out.
        b) a sibling snitched
        c) something going on in the house we might wanna worry about, cause if she was trying to hide and father still found out then maybe it could just be something worse.

        the mere fact that at 14 she even went ahead and did it brings to light that there probably are not too many rules in the home front, so that leaves room for any amount of speculation.
  • ... (04/03/2013, 12:51) Like (4) Dislike (0) Reply
    I don't understand how this is the school's fault. Somebody help me.
  • bvi parent (05/03/2013, 11:28) Like (2) Dislike (0) Reply
    Who said the child is telling the truth? She may have told him that it was done in the school's restroom when in fact she probably went to and paid to have it done at a reputable body piercing establishment. I think he should investigate the situation properly before he went on the radio ranting and raving like an ignorant fool, throwing accusations around. Yes, it is a fact that our children do not tell the truth at all times.
  • Wonderwoman (05/03/2013, 13:40) Like (3) Dislike (1) Reply
    Why do so many people belive this is the Minister's fault? (RIDICULOUS) You are ALL idiots. The parent has only himself to blame.
  • Seriously (05/03/2013, 15:19) Like (0) Dislike (1) Reply
    Why is it that every article that is posted online has to turn into politics? Come on people we got to get past the fact that NDP won and VIP lost the election. You have 4 years to deal with it 2 already gone and you got 2 more to go now suck it up.

    Like someone else said, the child should be held responsible as well. She choose to stand or sit there and let someone stick her. If she was a responsible child and had a mind of her own she should have known that doing such a thing in that type of conditions wasn't healthy and unsafe.

    I have 2 sons and like Billy B said let any of them decide to do such without my consent and they both will see what happens to them. A child suppose to know his or her place.
  • NiggaPlz! (05/03/2013, 16:17) Like (2) Dislike (0) Reply
    Your Daughter Is Some Bi-polar or Dung Syndrome Child?? You Mean To Tell Me She Got HER Belly Pierced In A Conscious Mind And Now You Want To Be Gettingg Upset With The School?!? NiggaPLZ!!!
  • Concerned (06/03/2013, 21:04) Like (0) Dislike (0) Reply
    Young people (girls especially) need to re-assess their lives and consider their futures, but the world in general has set them up to think that they have to obtain every fad that comes along. It's not just belly piercing. It is the tattoos that have to be displayed on all ares of their bodies. It is the skimpy clothing, the breasts showing, the underwear showing, the lack of underwear, the tramp stamp showing, the butt crack showing. Value yourselves and have morals, dignity and pride. Be an asset to yourself and not a liability.


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